Our Why
To be the biggest advocate and cheerleader for you on the most important day of your life. To simplify and beautify your wedding day so you can be fully and authentically present. To bring deep empathy to your experiences and honor your full humanity in the process
You and your partner(s) have a story unlike any other. Your wedding day should reflect your shared values, the journey you have taken, the life you will build. Navigating wedding traditions can be filled with conflicting emotions - this is especially true for queer people. We want to be the ones to help you identify the details of your wedding day that truly reflect who you are.
F*ck the traditions. We’re here to help you create your own.
Bringing our program management skills, event planning experience, and deep investment in equity and justice, we provide intentional, value-centered wedding coordination and planning services for nearlyweds in New Orleans, the Gulf Coast, and beyond.
F*ck the traditions. We’re here to help you create your own.
Both proposed
Both walked down the aisle
Both gave speeches at the reception
Wrote a Couples Creed outlining our shared values that was read at ceremony and posted at reception
Ring warming ceremony
Had a joint bachelorette party trip
Hand-curated wedding menu with the chef, including vegan and vegetarian options
What made our wedding ours
Hosted Thanksgiving rehearsal dinner in our back-yard
Private drag show for rehearsal dinner entertainment
Decorated reception tables with repurposed glass and rehomed or recycled it afterwards
Lifted up organizations that spoke to our values, like GlassHalf Full, at the reception
Shared a dance with our officiants/adopted Guncles
Instead of a traditional cake, we designed a dessert table with some of our fave NOLA treats
