New Orleans Based

Value-centered, inclusive wedding planning and coordination.

Our Services

  • Partial Planning

    You got started with wedding planning, stars in your eyes, and now the dreaded question: “What do we do next??”

  • Wedding Coordination

    For nearlyweds who are doing the planning themselves, but need a wedding day A-team to make it all happen!

  • Lagniappe

    In New Orleans, lagniappe (LAN-yap) is “a little something extra.” We offer one-off and add-on planning services at an hourly rate.

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EVENTS FROM YOUR POV

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EVENTS FROM YOUR POV *

Meet Your Planning Team

BEE + LYDIA

We believe weddings are about people joining people, not institutions, expectations, or pressure to follow tradition.

After years of coordinating weddings across the city and Gulf Coast, we’ve built a reputation for calm leadership, thoughtful logistics, and celebrations that truly reflect our couples.

GET TO KNOW BEE + LYDIA
GET TO KNOW BEE + LYDIA

YOUR CELEBRATION, YOUR RULES

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Ready To Start Planning Your New Orleans Wedding?

At Pair of Violets, we help YOU plan celebrations that reflect who YOU are, what YOU value, and how YOU want to gather YOUR people.

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  • 'Nothing short of extraordinary'

    Working with Bee and Lydia from POV was nothing short of extraordinary. Planning our event from Chicago could have been a logistical nightmare, but their expert guidance, unwavering support, and incredible day-of energy made the entire process effortless. They truly went above and beyond for us, handling every detail with precision and care. Their consistency, dedication, and thoughtfulness as people set them apart.

    -Monica C

  • 'Cannot Recommend them enough'

    As an LGBTQ+ couple, it meant so much to work with coordinators who not only respected our vision but fully celebrated it. They understood us without explanation and created a space where we felt completely supported and seen throughout the entire process.

    -Jasmine J.

  • 'Unmatched thoughtfulness & professionalism'

    There are not words that would adequately describe our love and appreciation for Bethany & Lydia!  To say that we recommend Pair of Violets is a total understatement! To have this dynamic duo as our wedding directors was the absolute greatest decision we made during our wedding planning.  These two ladies are thoughtful, insightful, listened intently to our vision for our wedding day, and executed our rehearsal and wedding day seamlessly. 

    -Joy & Samantha C.

  • 'The absolute best team'

    Ladies! I am finally having time to sit down and catch up on stuff since the wedding. Thank you so much for everything! It would literally have been impossible without you. You were the absolute best team to work with, and it makes me want to get married again just to work with you again!

    -Allie M.

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