Pair of Violets Weddings

Events from your POV.

Value-centered, inclusive wedding coordination and planning based in New Orleans.

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Lydia and Bee, wedding planners wedding coordinators at Pair of Violets, wear all black clothing as theypose back to back on a New Orleans street

In the language of flowers, giving someone violets on their birthday means “I will always be there for you.” 

Your wedding day probably isn’t your birthday, but it is a day to celebrate what makes you and your love unique. 

A day when you want a team who has your back. Who understands your unique vision and brings it to life. Who gets you.

That’s where we come in. 

Wife and wife dynamic duo. NOLA locals. Type A times two.
Pair of Violets.

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Events from your POV means:

Capturing your vision for every last detail
Centering the shared values that make your love unique
Coordinating your wedding day so you can live in the moment

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  • Sam and Joy, Pair of Violets clients, two brides parade through the streets, umbrellas in hand, behind the brass band of a second line parade in Fairhope, Alabama
  • a neon sign reading The Chaddlers is on a boxwood background framed by tall arrangements of tropical flowers
  • Lydia and Bee, Pair of Violets, flat lay of wedding vow books, rings, and florals from their own wedding, photo by Theo Nash
  • Joy and Sam, Pair of Violets clients, clasp hands as Lydia ties the handfasting knot

  • Joy & Sam

    ”There are not words that would adequately describe our love and appreciation for Bee & Lydia! To say that we recommend Pair of Violets is a total understatement! To have this dynamic duo as our wedding directors was the absolute greatest decision we made during our wedding planning. These two ladies are thoughtful, insightful, listened intently to our vision for our wedding day, and executed our rehearsal and wedding day seamlessly.”

  • Pair of Violets client, Joy and Sam, embrace and kiss in an elevator as the doors start to close

  • A pair of pristine white adidas all star shoes and a ring box with an engagement ring and wedding band inside sit atop pink fabric

  • Joy & Sam

    “Bee & Lydia were my sounding boards, they had the same high expectations for our day as we did, and they eliminated all the stress. Their superb organization and attention to detail allowed us to relax and enjoy our wedding weekend to the fullest. Their professionalism is unmatched and our guests raved continuously for weeks and months after our wedding about these two ladies. They were energetic, engaging, and poured themselves into our weekend, ensuring that we wrapped up a wedding weekend saying “this was perfect – it was our dream come true” wedding!”

  • Pair of Violets clients, Joy and Sam, stand in their wedding ceremony on a wrought iron balcony in Fairhope, Alabama

  • A woman in a sparkly jumpsuit passes a bowl with rings inside to the next guest as part of the ring warming ceremony at Lydia and Bee's wedding

  • a pair of heels trimmed in pearls, a pearl necklace, and two rings, one of which has an emerald center stone, all sit on top of a vintage New Orleans map in shades of turquoise and blue

Wedding Stories

  • Pair of Violet clients Joy and Sam share an embrace and a sweet look smile at their first look

    Joy & Sam

    Tropical blooms, found family and handfasting made this couples’ day all their own.

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  • Pair of Violets, wedding coordination, a young African American lady participates in a ring warming ceremony unity ceremony

    Unity Ceremony

    Far from candles, there are lots of ways to incorporate rituals of unity in your ceremony.

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  • Pair of Violets, wedding coordination, Lydia and Bee's wedding had stacks of custom frosted sugar cookies as favors

    Favors They'll Love

    With these tips, you won’t be stuck taking home favors at the end of the night!

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